What's Worse

I don't know what is worse: Being in a place where you are a fish out of water, a black sheep, have nothing in common with anyone, all the people are close-minded, low vibration religious conservative bigots, where the weather and nature are depressing, and there is nothing interesting to do, OR being in a place with like-minded people who share your values, and interests, where there are many interesting things to do, where there are open-minded, higher vibration, progressive, caring and empathetic people, where the weather and nature is healing, where you feel at home – but are still ignored, left out, not welcomed, don't fit in, an outsider, can not make a single real human connection, and are essentially rejected by the very people whom you call "your people." What’s worse?